There are many products on the market today whose aim is to bring couples back together again.
Some of them are very good, some less good, and a few that are just rubbish, (and we’ve read most of
them!)
TW Jackson’s Magic of Making Up is now widely recognised as the foremost resource for couples or
individuals seeking to either rekindle a relationship, or to actually get back a lost love, and yes, we’ve actually
read it! It's our favorite and worth every penny. Here's what it's about.
The Magic of Making Up consists of eight chapters which when taken together, amount to a
complete strategy for winning back lost love, even in the face of what appear to be, on the surface, insurmountable
issues. Having a strategy is vitally important. On the one hand it eliminates the risk of your losing face and the
embarrassment that causes, and on the other a clear strategy gives a plan for success.
And that’s one of the beauties of this book. Right away
TW Jackson draws you in, in an authoritative yet relaxed style, without condemnation of you or your
ex, which makes you feel like he’s on your side. Taking complex situations, he provides clarity of thought
that is relevant and provides insights into why certain situations can arise in a relationship. It’s when we
start to understand the basic underlying causes affecting our relationships that we can then move
forward.
TW Jackson starts off by examining what it is that actually makes men and women tick (yes, men and women are
different!) What is it that men and women both need in a relationship? The answers will surprise you, and clearly
demonstrate that even if the relationship has ended, it’s actually not over.....
This second part of the book is about getting your head straight, and most importantly gives a clear strategy as
to what to do, and what not to do. Some of this is completely counterintuitive at first, but as you read on, it
makes complete sense.
This section also includes what TW Jackson calls “The Fast Forward Technique”. This is a simple
mental exercise that is incredibly effective, not just for repairing relationships, but for overcoming
difficulties and negative feelings generally. Since purchasing “The Magic of Making Up” I have used it myself
and found it extremely effective in my personal battle with weight loss!
The third section is all about pinpointing the problem in you and your ex’s relationship. And
it’s not a simple “They cheated – that’s the problem!” All problems in a relationship, even cheating, have their
root cause in something else. TW Jackson goes into great detail on root causes and how to deal with them. It’s this
section that takes you by the hand and allows you to discover and evaluate your true feelings, and then make a
rational decision as to whether or not the relationship is worth fighting for.
If you decide it is, section four is all about how to reignite the relationship. This is where the much needed
strategy starts to take place, concentrating on what you can do for yourself to build your levels of energy and
self confidence (amongst other things) to ready yourself to get your ex back. You’ll be amazed at how good this
is!
Section five builds your strategy further, detailing what first steps to take to recover your
relationship, even giving clear and compelling advice on what to do if your ex has started dating again, right
through to how to start reconnecting with your ex.
Section six then follows through on the “dos” and “donts” of getting back with your ex. How your
mindset should be before meeting, (how to get this mindset is covered in the previous sections), what to do, what
to say, what to avoid talking about including “The Instant Reconnect Method” which is a psychological tactic that
makes your ex’s subconscious think you are back together again. This is not some hypnotherapy or something
mysterious to be suspicious of, just a very simple technique which is highly effective and make you wonder why you
hadn’t thought of it already! TW Jackson even takes you through subsequent meetings right up to when to start
having sex again!
Section seven is a guide to keeping the relationship alive once you are back together again. This is also a great
section for couples who haven’t split up, but their relationship needs “freshening up.” Things to do, how to
forgive and forget, even how to agree to disagree.
Finally section eight is for those who find that their relationship cannot be saved. The
fact is, that if you follow the strategies in this book you will be in great shape to recover and move on. Not
only that, but TW Jackson has strategies for that too!
Also included in the purchase price is TW Jackson’s “Clean Slate Method”, a fascinating and
truly effective formula to “wipe the slate clean” and allow a relationship to heal – a real gem! You also get “Mind
Magic”, which has more simple psychological tactics for relationships, to be used alongside “The Magic Of Making
Up”. Again, don’t be put off by “psychological!” These are simple actions you can take that will trigger certain
responses, effective and easy, but not obvious – you’ll be surprised!