Preventing Premature Ejaculation
Preventing
premature ejaculation is one topic that’s sure to
send you scampering for cover, the one topic you can’t
bring up in a discussion without everyone thinking you’re
less of a man for having done so. Every time you open the
topic with the words “lift off without sanction”, you’re
bound to get the usual dosage of bad jokes and irritating
tips on how to avoid it, from herbal remedies to weird and
unusual ideas. If you have been experiencing premature
ejaculation, you’ll need to understand that it’s more
common than you would have thought, so there’s nothing to
be ashamed of. You may have been prepping for an intensive
session of lovemaking and discover that you’re not able to
seal the deal, so as to speak. Yeah, it can be a letdown,
that’s a given and if this problem keeps reoccurring, then
you have an issue, one you need to deal with right away.
The reasons for premature ejaculation are many from
anxiety to a sudden case of nerves. Here are a few tips to
help you prevent premature ejaculation, from dealing with
the stress of making love to some of the other factors
contributing to the problem at hand.
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Premature
ejaculation can happen on account of pre-teen pressures.
Think about it, you’ll be busy stimulating yourself in
the washroom; soon someone walks in and you need to wrap
up things in a hurry. This pattern of repeat “quickies”
sets in and soon, you’re not able to control your
excitement as you come prematurely. The problem can also
result from pre-lovemaking pressures, increasing your
anxiety to a stretching point that you’re no longer able
to control yourself. Try some breathing exercises to help
you relax and gain control over anxiety fears or over
excitement. Do the fish – translated that means start
breathing deeply and soon, you should be able to lift-off
in perfect synchronization with your partner. Remember, a
normal lovemaking session can extend over half an hour,
so yeah; it pays to control your reflexes especially if
you’re intent on pleasuring your
partner.
Time your
movements, now that’s a phrase you’ll need to give some
serious consideration. The next time you feel you’re in
the verge of lifting off prematurely, you may want to
take a moment, think about anything not related to sex or
count to ten and continue. The whole idea here is that by
doing so, you should be able to continue making love for
longer durations than what goes for the
norm.
At the
moment, there’s no proven medical method for
preventing premature ejaculation, though there are a few
herbal remedies being sold retail. Since this condition
can be caused by various factors, developing a cure for
the same continues to be a challenge. But there are a few
quick remedies you can opt for, to help you gain control
over a love life that seems to be heading
nowhere.
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Masturbation: Though considered taboo
by many people worldwide, masturbation is one of the best
ways of preventing premature ejaculation. With
masturbation, your sexual libido gets used to being
aroused and released. This will stop one of the main
reasons of premature ejaculation – long timeframes
between sexual intercourse.
Foreplay:
Foreplay is another way of preventing premature
ejaculation. If you opt for a well themed foreplay before
and during the lovemaking, your body gets used to the
idea of being aroused for longer timeframes, so the
chances of anything prematurely going off is
less.
Another
way of preventing premature ejaculation is by the
squeeze method. Personally, I would prefer not to try
this method for obvious reasons. But if the above two
methods do not do the trick, you’ll have to get your
partner to give your head a squeeze, just enough to
prevent the problem from reoccurring. Considering the
nature of the problem, it’s better if you handle the
squeeze part on your own.
Preventing
premature ejaculation can be achieved in a completely
different way, by using special creams
currently available in the market. These creams, known as
desensitizing creams, can be applied on the problem area
causing that part of your body to go numb, in a matter of
seconds. It should help prevent the problem. But you need
to realize that the root cause is more psychological than
physical, so you may need to handle this problem on both
fronts.
However, the
best method, rather than fiddle around with creams etc.,
is to train your mind. After all, a lot of sex is in the
mind, and mental control is the first prong in a three
pronged attack put together by sex therapist Matt Gorden.
In his program, "Ejaculation trainer.com", he teaches
techniques to control your thoughts, preventing premature
ejaculation. There's more. Gorden's other two prongs are
hormonal control, in which he recommends diet and
supplements that help release natuaral chemicals in your
brain, which again help you last. The third prong is all
to do with your physical approach - what to do and what
NOT to do, in satisfying your partner
and preventing premature ejaculation.
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