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Let me say straight off that when you start reading "Pull Your Ex Back" you will want to stop
by page 13! Not that this is a bad product, far from it, it's just that it's not as well written as it should
be -"Now even though the odds might not be in your favor but it doesn't mean that it's not
reparable." This is one sentence, no commas, a redundant "but" and a spelling mistake.
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Now!
You may think I'm being picky, but I do get annoyed when I spend money on a so called premium
product and the meaning of words is lost in a sea of flowery verbosity with bad grammar, punctuation and spelling
mistakes. I resent the fact that no one appears to have bothered to proof read this book before pushing it onto an
unsuspecting public!
However, all is not lost! Rather than throw the book down and demand a refund, I decided to give it the benefit
of the doubt and read on. The book consists of 93 pages and 17 chapters, plus some final notes at the end.
"Pull Your Ex Back" starts with the author claiming to have experienced a break up and had no "FRICKEN" (see
what I mean?) idea of what to do. The story doesn't quite add up, but I guess it sets the scene and represents what
many people have experienced in similar situations, so in a way, it doesn't matter if this is truth or fiction.
What it does do is neatly lead into the first chapter. This section is primarily concerned with understanding
and getting a grip on your emotions. Some of this I found to be a little obvious, and some quite contentious,
however, it's an interesting read, but left me feeling "so what?", as it didn't give any real advice on what to
actually do.
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Reading on, however, chapter 2 examines why the relationship ended. Here, "Pull Your Ex Back" gives 7 main
reasons as to why the relationship ended, though no action plan on what to do, which left me thinking that this
book was merely stating the obvious, when what I want are solutions. Taking chapters 1 and 2 together however,
things started to come together as I read on....
Chapter 3 deals with what is probably the most important thing to do when trying to get an ex
back. It is linked directly to chapter 4, which contains the detail I thought chapters 1 and 2 missed, namely,
how to actually deal with your emotional state etc. And that's what's important about this book, you have to
stick with it and read it in it's entirety.
Chapter 5 is concerned with self analysis. Having got "fit" to re-enter the relationship, "Pull Your Ex Back"
then presents you with a simple exerise where you actually decide if you really want this person back at all. The
point being, if you've followed the plan up to this point, your are now mentally equiped to make a rational
decision, rather than a decision based on raw emotion.
Chapter 6 is about putting yourself in the other person's shoes, as well as things not to do if you want your ex
back. This is quite interesting, but frankly, does not really give any understanding as to why your ex may feel
that way, and this is where a product like TW Jackson's "The Magic Of Making
Up" is better.
Chapter 7 is "The Main Process". This is how you regain control of the relationship. However, phrases like "Now
it's time to flip the game and make them dance to your tunes" (page 41) I would suggest are not helpful. It is an
interesting chapter though, and gives plenty of good advice as to what you can do to yourself to help win your ex
back, including physique, diet and recreation.
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Chapter 8 goes into the pros and cons of geting back into the dating scene again, why you should/shouldn't.
Chapters 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13 are all about the reconnecting. How to handle the first phone call or texts. What
to avoid talking about/doing etc. on your first actual meet and how to get your ex to want you back. It's all
actually good stuff, well thought out and explained, as well as being logical.
Chapter 14 covers those awkward questions, covering the whole cycle of breaking up to the reunion - like "what
if I bump into them when I'm on a date with someone else?" - (the answer is very good!)
Chapter 15 is all about how to avoid pain and embarassment if things don't, in the end, work out, and gives some
answers to the "why not" questions.
Chapter 16 is focused on how to avoid breaking up in the first place. In other words, spoting
signs of relationship breakdown and what action to take.
Chapter 17 is concerned with advice for those who dumped their ex.
The last chapter revists the emotional level. I'm not really sure why it's there as it would have been more
useful back in chapter 2, and that's the fundamental problem with this book. The actual content, when you look
beyond the poor presentation, is actually quite good. But the chapters lack some coherence and you put the book
down feeling that you've been given a lecture rather than a strategy for winning back lost love.
Should you buy it? Well, if you take the information and ignore the presentation, it will certainly be of
benefit to those wanting to get back with an ex, but their are better products out there, and TW Jackson's
"The Magic Of Making
Up" is still our number one, read our free review
here.
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