Signs of an Affair
 As we get older, we change. Our outlook on life can become less
rosy. Our job may not offer the same prospects anymore. We feel that life has passed us by. Our marriage has
become routine, ok, we rub along, the washing gets done and there's food on the table, the carpets are paid
for, god bless the TV..........but something's missing........we don't do anything rashly, on impulse anymore.
And when was the last time you bought your partner a present that wasn't an iron....or a saucepan?, and when
did you last prepare a special meal as a precursor to a night of passion?
The fact is we change. The downside of life's experience is that we gain experience over time, time to look back
on, and see past mistakes, lost opportunities. This is when marriages come under threat. Both partners have become
stuck in a "comfort zone", and one, (sometimes both), decide life has passed them by and they want to do something
about it.
Suddenly, you notice a change in your partner, and it begins to dawn on you that they may be having an affair.
But how can you tell? What are the tell-tale signs that you need to know how to spot the signs of an
affair?
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Well, the signs are basically the same for men as they are for women, especially now that both parties to a
marriage often go out to work.
A lot of ebooks will tell you that a change of appearance, or a partner taking more pride in their appearance is
often a sign of an affair. This may be the case, but be careful here. British comedian, Jasper Carrot one said,
"when you get to 40, you go to your wardrobe and it's like someone's nicked your dress sense!" Men in particular
are prone to this "mid life crisis". They suddenly feel that they are getting older, and need to change their image
a bit (others just grow old disgracefully and keep wearing the Motorhead tee shirts!). So changing one's appearance
may not be anything to do with cheating, however, wearing a cologne for the first time may be!!!!!
Of course, spotting the signs of an affair goes further than clothes. Again, a lot of people will tell
you that lack of sex drive is a definite clue. Problem with that is, particularly as we approach 40 and beyond, a
lot of men (who attain their sexual peak at about 25 as opposed to 35-40 for women), are under huge amounts of
pressure and stress at work, and their libido is vastly reduced.
 So, the two perhaps most obvious "clues" as to how to spot the signs of an affair
are not the obvious things you should be looking at first and foremost.
When you are married to someone, it's reasonable to assume that you know them pretty well. The tell tale signs
of an affair are the little things - do they look you in the eye and tell you that they love you. How do they
react to a gentle cuddle in bed? Do they appear evasive and secretive (this is far more important a clue than lack
of sex drive or buying new clothes!
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