It’s always a good idea to search for new lovemaking tips and tricks to enhance your
personal life. Sometimes, however, the best lovemaking tips are the most simple and are different for
men and women.
It’s often not a bold new position or a fantasy acted out (although both of those are great fun!) that will make
your lovemaking better, but it’s getting back to basics.
Below are six lovemaking tips. There are three for men and three for women. See how easy it is to improve
your sex life.
Men
Pay Attention Some men think that women are terribly complicated creatures. The truth is that one of the best
lovemaking tips that can be offered to men is to just pay attention to your partner. Take notice of what
she seems to like and dislike, and then adjust your lovemaking accordingly.
What’s the Rush?
Do you REALLY have to hop out of bed as soon as the main event is over? Come on, just stay for a few minutes.
That sandwich will still be there. To some women, it is a little insulting when you hop out of bed without so
much as a compliment after lovemaking.
Take a few minutes to hold her and tell her what a great time you had. She’ll probably try even harder
next time.
Foreplay Begins at Breakfast Doing all the right things throughout the day is one of the
best lovemaking tips there are. Being considerate, thoughtful and helpful to your partner will help to put
her in the mood come bedtime.
Let Go! Many women are still stuck in the place where they hold back sexually, even if they
have been with their partner for quite a while. For those women, learning to let go – really let go – is the
single best lovemaking tip you can get.
Allowing yourself to be free in the bedroom will open all sorts of doors. Your partner doesn’t care if you
are in perfect shape. One of the sexiest things you can do is to realize how truly sexy you are, and let him
reap the benefits of that confidence!
Be Daring! Don’t be afraid to try new things or to make love in a rather daring
location. Even if you don’t want to go too far, try some sexy teasing on the elevator or in the cab and then
finish the act once you get home.
Step outside of your comfort zone and surprise your man! He will appreciate it more than you imagine.
Leave the Lights On
He WANTS to see you! Let him! It’s not about being with a perfect supermodel, it’s about being with the one he
loves, and that is you. You don’t need to have bright, glaring lights as though you were on a movie
set, but some soft lighting – even candle light – will help to set the mood and allow him to see the woman he
loves.
If you're serious about learning more about pleasing your partner, and of course, yourself,
then Michael Webb's book, "500 Lovemaking Tips" is for you. Covering all aspects of your relationship, how to
get in the mood, foods to eat to increase libido, adventurous sexual positions with descriptions and pictures,
4 methods of avoiding premature ejaculation and much more, recommended.
