Lots of men wish there were a concise and simple answer to questions about what women want in
bed. The reason those are not very simple questions to answer is that there is no ONE answer that is right for
every woman.
What women want in bed is going to vary from person to person.
Not wanting to send you away empty handed, here are some tips to get you started on the road to having those
questions answered.
Pay Attention Often, the answer to what women want in bed can be answered if you just pay
attention to their responses. If she seems to react positively to something, that probably means she likes it! This
really isn’t rocket science, but some men get so caught up in what THEY are feeling, that the fail to pay attention
to how the woman is reacting.
By simply paying attention, you’ll likely get a lot of hints about what she wants.
Be Honest Don’t lead on a woman with promises you have no intention of keeping. While this
probably isn’t what you were looking for when you asked what women want in bed, the fact is that most want
honesty.
There are lots of women who might not want a long term commitment, but no one wants to be lied to or strung
along. The woman in the equation has the right to make the decision to sleep with you or not based on your real
intentions.
Don’t be Selfish
As mentioned earlier, some men tend to be a wee bit selfish when it comes to lovemaking. You should be most
interested in making sure your partner is satisfied. If that happens, you can be sure that you’ll be taken care of
as well.
What women want in bed is to feel like their needs and desires are just as important as yours. They do not want
to feel like they are just there for your pleasure and that once you’re satisfied, the party is over.
Make sure that you are as interested in her having a good experience as you are in having one yourself.
Ask Her Simple right? Why are you asking someone who does not know your partner or potential
partner what she wants when you could just ask her!? Some men think this may make them look inexperienced or
awkward, but if you ask the right way and at the right time, you’ll just look interested in pleasing her.
Don’t be afraid to ask your partner about what women want in bed. She will probably be pleasantly
surprised at your boldness.
No Magic Bullet Some men make the mistake of thinking that there is a magic list of “moves”
that cover everything concerning what women want in bed and make you a sex god! The truth is that getting to know
your partner is the best way to find out what women want in bed.
Because each woman is different, the answer to that question will be different for every woman. While there is
no easy answer, by following the tips above, you’ll be moving in the right direction.
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people even get to the stage where they actually put off making love with their partners through a lack of
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